Solid match - Warren Cooper didn’t think twice about being his brother’s bone marrow donor

When his little brother, Warren, was a freshman in college, David Cooper, helped him find his way around campus and get his books at the bookstore.

They lived in different apartments in the same apartment complex, so each could have his independence, but David kept tabs on him.

“He always tried to look after me,” Warren said. “He was the big brother and made sure that I did this or that. He tried to keep me out of trouble.”

After college, life took the brothers to separate towns. David and his wife, Donna, live in Clarksville, Tenn., with their two children. And Warren lives with his wife, Sandra, and 4-year-old son, Dalton, in Mooresboro.

No doubt about the match
But when David was diagnosed in January with acute leukemia, Warren didn’t think twice about being a bone marrow donor for his brother.

“I never considered doing anything different. I prayed, but I never doubted that I would be a match,” Warren said.

The numbers were against him — the chances that a sibling will be a match are between 20 to 25 percent. However, Warren surprised doctors by not only being a match, but a 10 out of 10 match — the closest you can get.

“That’s a miracle of God,” Warren said.

David and Warren’s mother, Joy Cooper Williams, said she’s scared about the upcoming transplant but she’s also holding onto her faith.

“We have been praying from the first day and God has answered our prayers,” she said. “We are praying for a full recovery and a minimum of side effects.”

A new birthday
The transplant will take place July 2-3 at Vanderbilt University Hospital in Nashville, Tenn. Warren’s wife and son, his mom and his dad, Don Cooper, are going to be there for the transplant. Williams said the hospital is one of the best in treating David’s type of cancer. She participated in a caregivers class last week and learned what she can expect before and after the transplant.

David will go in the hospital on June 28 to prepare for the transplant. He will be given intense chemotherapy and radiation treatments that will kill all of his bone marrow. At the same time, Warren will begin taking shots that will make his body produce stem cells. On July 2, the stem cells will be harvested in a manner that is similar to donating blood. The blood is pumped out, goes through a machine and then is put back into the bloodstream. The new stem cells will be given to David on July 3.

“July 3 is his new birthday. It will take about two years for a full recovery,” Williams said.

Family’s faith important
She said that David’s prognosis is good, because they discovered the leukemia early. They found it in January and he’s been in remission since March.
“I have more faith than I’ve ever had,” she said.

She grew up in a Christian home with a mother who believed in prayer.

“My mother’s influence and my family’s influence was so important,” Williams said. “You never know what your children will face and they have to have something to lean on.”

Warren, who serves as a deacon at Sandy Run Baptist Church in Mooresboro, said the support and prayers of his church family have helped his family face this difficult and scary time.

“I’m blessed to have the network of friends that I have,” he said. “Everybody has been so supportive of our family.”

Praying for others and celebrating life
But he also wants people to realize that they are not the only ones who need prayer.

“At Vanderbilt, there is a whole room of people who are fighting leukemia,” he said. “We don’t have the toughest battle.”

He also said the experience has made him think more about the time he spends with his family.

“You look around and notice the little things,” he said.
“If you haven’t talked to somebody in a while pick up the phone and call them, because you never know. If Dalton wants to swim a little longer, we swim a little longer. If he wants to play ball a little longer we play ball.”

If you’d like to send a message of encouragement to the family, e-mail joyetc@bellsouth.net.

(In the photo above, David is on the left.)

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More photos from Connie and Steve Willis' garden in Fallston

FALLSTON — For 21 years, Connie Willis and her daughter, Erin, were inseparable. Erin had cerebral palsy and Connie kept her close.
“We went everywhere together,” Connie said. “I never left her with anyone. I miss her a lot.” When Erin died on May 17, 2005, the neighbors wanted a way to honor Erin’s memory and help Connie and her husband, Steve, deal with the loss of their daughter. The idea was a memory garden, and Evelyn Horldt, who lives across the street, collected the money.
“We wanted to do something that they could look back on,” Horldt said. “We collected $320 and gave it to them and let them purchase what they wanted. I can enjoy it by being across the street. They keep it lit at night. It’s a constant reminder that Erin’s spirit is still here.”
Here are more photos from the garden made by Star photographer Jeff Melton:

A very special bond --Students support teacher battling cancer

From the moment Jenny Bridges shared the news of her cancer diagnosis with co-workers at Springmore Elementary School, she has received constant encouragement and support.

“I found the place right after spring break, toward the end of March,” said Bridges, a third-grade teacher.Her first chemotherapy treatment was 3½ weeks later.

After she shared the diagnosis, a fifth-grade teacher, Nicole Albright, made a bracelet for her, which was a gift from the third-grade and fifth-grade teachers.

“Jenny liked it and wore it and everybody on the grade level wanted one, her family wanted one, everybody started asking for one,” Albright said.

Because the bracelets were so popular, the third- and fifth-grade teachers decided to sell them to raise money for Bridges’ medical expenses.“We love her,” Lydia Sewell, a third grade-teacher said.

“We’re a team. We’re a family. She’s our heartbeat. We’ve been friends for a long time, since the beginning of Springmore, and there’s a special bond between the third-grade and fifth-grade.”

Holly Glover handled orders and getting supplies to make the bracelets. In the eight weeks since Bridges received her diagnosis, they have made more than 400 bracelets and raised more than $8,500. They’ve also had other fundraisers, but the majority of donations have come through the bracelets, which were sold for $20 each until they were sold out.

The boys have even shown support for their teacher by wearing pink T-shirts.

“I do it to support Mrs. Bridges, so she can feel better,” said Riley Thompson, 9. “She’s a good teacher.”

The teachers presented the money to Jenny and her husband, John, at a surprise party May 31.

She had no idea how much money had been raised.

“The support and love that has been shown through this family has been unbelievable,” Bridges said. “It’s cards, e-mails, prayers and gifts. I don’t even have the burden. Everybody else is carrying it for me.”

More photos from Jenny Bridges at Springmore

In the eight weeks since Jenny Bridges received a diagnosis of breast cancer, her co-workers have made more than 400 bracelets and raised more than $8,500. They presented her a check at a surprise party.

Springmore teachers“Girls Gone Wild for the Jenny Bracelets” These teachers helped raise more than $8,500 for fellow teacher Jenny Bridges, who is battling breast cancer: Holly GloverLydia SewellDonna TrimbleLynne SundayLisa KindlerAllyson CampHeather MorrisonNicole AlbrightShelly JonesNatalie RogersAshley HooksMichelle HamiltonHope Binion

Springmore students have shown support for their teacher. First row, Jaida Wesson, left, and McKala Butler; second row, left to right, Nicholas Deaton, Riley Thompson, Mrs. Bridges, Jenna Bridges, and Taylor Walker

Jenny Bridges talks about the support she's received from the Springmore community.

Jenny and her children: Carson Bridges, Jenna Bridges, Colby Bridges.

More photos from Bethware Fourth-graders visit to Life Enrichment Center in Kings Mountain

Fourth-grade students in Crissie Johnsonbaugh’s class from Bethware Elementary held a bake sale to raise money to buy a birdbath and bird feeders for the Life Enrichment Center in Kings Mountain. The participants enjoy watching, filling the bird feeders and identifying the birds.

The students brought and set up the bird feeders

and birdbath for the participants at the

Life Enrichment Center.

Gift adds beauty and song -- Bethware fourth-graders buy birdbath and feeders for Life Enrichment Center

The healing garden at the Neisler Life Enrichment Center, 222 Kings Mountain Blvd., Kings Mountain, has a path that winds through sedges, herbs and fruit trees. It begins and ends in a veranda furnished with rocking chairs, ceiling fans and an outdoor fireplace.

But something was missing — a birdbath and bird feeders.

“We had a birdbath on our wish list for many months and wondered if we would ever get one donated,” Debbie Vaughan, Community Outreach Coordinator, explained in an e-mail.

The center’s wish was granted in March by a group of fourth-graders from Bethware Elementary — Crissie Johnsonbaugh’s “Johnsonbaugh Jaguars.” Johnsonbaugh said her students had been begging her to do a service project.

“We brainstormed different projects, talked to the principal (the students went and talked to her, and then I went later), and decided on buying something for the Life Enrichment Center in Kings Mountain,” Johnsonbaugh wrote in a e-mail.

The students, with Principal Valerie Boyd’s approval, planned, set up and had a bake sale during their Christmas program at school. Faculty and parents donated baked goods. The students raised more than $200 at the bake sale.

“Many of the participants’ own grandchildren are grown now, so they love and have adopted our new young heroes, the Johnsonbaugh Jaguars,” Vaughan said. “I think what means the most is knowing that these young people care about them. It has taken a lot of work from students, parents and teachers to bake, sell and purchase these items and fill our need.”

Along with the birdbath, the students donated a hook, two bird feeders and bird seed. They brought the items to the Life Enrichment Center and visited with the residents.

“I believe the project will have a lasting effect on the students,” Johnsonbaugh said. “The students were proud of helping push some of the residents around in their wheelchairs, and they were just excited in general.”

Vaughan said the act of kindness has meant “the world” to the center’s participants.

“It is wonderful to know that these young people care enough about us to make a difference in both our lives and our healing garden with the birdbath and bird feeders,” she said. “Many of our participants enjoy being outside in the garden area during their day at Life Enrichment Center. They especially enjoy watching, filling the bird feeders and identifying the birds.”

Johnsonbaugh said her students wanted to do something for others, because they have relatives who are in retirement homes or relatives who are serving in the armed forces.

“I believe they have grown up in a time and around family that believes helping others is how we will survive,” she said.

Gloria Lowe Harper wants to come home to finish cancer fight

Gloria Lowe Harper is a giving and caring person, who has worked for many years mentoring children in the Communities in Schools programs at Crest Middle and Township Three Elementary.

When she was diagnosed with multiple myeloma, a type of bone marrow cancer, on April 25, 2007, it was time for her family and friends to rally around her, offering support financially and through their prayers and encouragement.

After doctors here said they could do no more to help her, her family and friends raised the money to send her to the number one Multiple Myeloma center in America, the University of Arkansas for Medical Science Myeloma Institute for Research and Therapy.

She traveled to Arkansas a month ago and family members have taken turns staying with her there. But now, doctors at the center say the treatments are not working and her family wants to bring her back home.

Gloria’s sister, Bea Webber, said they will need $7,000 to fly Gloria home. The family has contacted Hospice Cleveland County and is hoping Gloria will be able to stay at Wendover.

Donations to help bring Gloria home may be sent to Gloria’s church, St. Peter Baptist in Grover.

The St. Peter Ministries for Gloria Harper Fund was created to help lesson the impact on the family, making funds available for not only for medical treatment but for everyday expenses such as rent, utilities, groceries, transportation, travel and lodging.Donations are tax-deductible. Checks should be made payable to the Gloria Harper Fund and send to St. Peter Ministries, P.O. Box 2706, Shelby, NC 28151-2706.